So, it looks like Robert Bly, author of “The Sibling Society,” was right about where the country had landed in the 1990s — an adolescent society in which there are no real grownups, and where, in classic adolescent behavior, a majority of of-age adults care little about the little ones coming up behind them. Bly feared that America had too many “half adults,” women and men in protracted adolescence, obsessed with personal pleasures, neglecting the next generation and the greater good. That sounds like cranky geezer stuff, but I think that late poet uttered a powerful truth. His critique, originally leveled during the Clinton presidency, came to mind frequently during the first Trump time, whenever I heard someone refer to the lack of “adults in the room.”
There have been many ways to explain the American tragedy of Trump — his fear mongering, appeals to racism, his demonization of immigrants, having Musk and other billionaires on his side — and all of that part of the answer.
But there was something else necessary for him to win two elections: The willingness of grownups to care little about the next generation. How anyone with children or grandchildren can support Trump — a felon and sexual predator, liar, racist and insurrectionist — is impossible for me to fathom.
Once upon a time, at least in the ideal, the country had standards; our parents and grandparents wanted presidents who they and we could admire and respect. It did not always work out — few presidents got out of Washington without scars or scandal of some kind — but it never started out that way; we never knowingly elected a vulgar man, a felon and aspiring autocrat. And now Americans have done it twice.
One last thing, but certainly a major thing: Trump believes climate change is a hoax and he will do nothing about it, another reason why his election shows a tragic and immoral disregard for the next generation.
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Amen to your article!
What a travesty!!?
I don’t know what to say ! Or do?
Sad state of affairs! Our country has no morals, no civility or decency!
How sad for our collective children and our grandchildren!?
how will we survive the next four years?
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Unbelievably disheartening and I feel so angry with every single person who voted for him.
This is a hard day.
Pamela
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Good Morning Dan! I hope your mental breakdown goes smoothly! #MAGA
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You should be ashamed of yourself.
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Fucking brilliant!!! Donald Thoms Executive Producer410-949-6233
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Thank you Dan! I am ashamed to be an American today.
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How long will the new regime use power to entrench and enrich itself?
Remember when Germany occupied France in WWII?
What you do going forward matters.
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I keep asking myself why are people so cruel, gullible, and even stupid. Thinking in terms of living in a country of “half-adults” offers a partial explanation.
This is devastating, heartbreaking, and crushing.
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I can live with policy differences, put forth by reasonable people for whom I have a measure of respect. The problem for me is I can’t find any personal attribute or character trait in Trump that is worthy of respect. I am even more perplexed by his supporters who tell me that they too are put off by his demeanor and personal behavior and lack of civility, but still find him worthy of their vote. Sadly, I fear we are headed down a most difficult road ahead.
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Gonna be work. Right up front, for Ukrainians and the Palestinians of the West Bank and Gaza, but for children of immigrants — American citizens — in Ohio, Colorado, Michigan, Pennsylvania. People need to stop grieving fast because very soon they are going to need to be able to do work and to show compassion.
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I am disgusted beyond my ability to measure it with the results of this election.
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Dan:We framed the above artic
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not being concerned about the future? As Louis XV said, “apres moi le deluge.”
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This gave me a little comfort today after the soul-crushing loss last night. I kept thinking of climate change as I picked tomatoes in my garden—in November!! His help us.
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I feel like I just attended a funeral of a close friend, and I continue to mourn the loss. The idea of having to listen to DJT for 4 years fills me with dread. I can’t believe that 10 million more people have voted for him now than in 2016, after all his scandals, impeachments and indictments.
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